Preparing your Child for the Christmas & Holiday Season

Tips for Preparing your Child for Christmas

Written by Dr. John Carosso

Good Tidings…

The Christmas Holiday is magical; a wonderful time of year that spreads warm feelings and cheer in families and communities throughout the world. The celebration is well deserved, and we all tend to look forward to this very special time of year.

But…

Yea, there is a ‘but’ for many parents with kiddos struggling with any number of behavioral health or developmental issues such as ADHD and autism. In those homes, the hectic and often-times over-stimulating nature of this holiday season can bring about all sorts of behaviors, meltdowns, over-activity, and fixations.

Father (and mother) knows best

First, remember that you know your child best. Given the frequent changes in routine during the holiday season, you know whether your child fixates on the routine and it’s best to not convey the daily schedule till the last minute, or if your child thrives on knowing the routine in advance and finds the information to be comforting. You also know whether it’s best to do all the decorations quickly, all at once, or if your child responds better to a slower approach.

Shopping

You have shopped enough with your child to know the best approach. The challenge during the Season is that these shopping trips are usually a bit longer so it’s even more important to take breaks, have fun items to keep your kiddo’s busy, and work your way into each store a bit slower than usual. Some kiddo’s respond well to headphones and darker tinted glasses. Give lots of praise and kuddo’s along the way.

Keeping the schedule

During the holidays, the daily routine that you’ve worked so hard to maintain with consistency usually becomes more unpredictable and varied. Social stories, schedules and visual schedules, and reminders, can be very helpful. However, again, when you convey the information will vary from child to child.

Gifts and Toys

It can be helpful to wait until the last minute to arrange the gifts under the tree, given the temptation your child may face to open ahead of time. However, again, you know your child best and some find it very pleasant to see the presents and would not dare open any until the designated time. Also, with that in mind, turn-taking to open presents can be coordinated by passing an ornament to whoever’s turn it may be to open a present. Offering a quiet, out-of-the-way place for your kiddo to play with his new toys may also be helpful to avoid grabbing at other’s toys, becoming overly upset if somebody touches his toys, and causing disruption.

Some other tips

If your child has food sensitivities or is very finicky, you may want to bring some food and bring it along to Aunt Jennie’s house for the celebration. Also, before arriving, it may also help to show your kiddo pictures of who will be there, and what to expect every step of the way. Sometime children respond better if they gradually mix-in with the crowd as opposed to all at once; and provide a ‘safe-haven’ if it become too overwhelming. You’re the best judge of how much your child can tolerate, so you’ll be keeping a watchful-eye, and intervening when necessary. Also, regarding the family, prepare them for what to expect from your kiddo and how they can help the situation rather than make it worse.

Don’t miss the Season

These were just a few tips to consider during this Christmas season. Most importantly; enjoy this time with your children, family, and friends. Relish these opportunities no matter how chaotic or stressful they may become at times. In years ahead, you’ll look back and miss these days. Don’t miss them now. God bless you and your family during this blessed Christmas Season.

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Dr. John Carosso

I work as a Child Psychologist, and School Psychologist in Pittsburgh Pennsylvania,specializing in the diagnosis and treatment of ADHD, Behavioral Problems, Autism, Depression, Trauma, and Educational issues. I also provide in-home and in-school wraparound services.